Saturday, October 22, 2011

We Cause Most of Our Own Problems

Life evolves – reality is new every half-second – one event occurs after another.  This relentless pattern never stops.  The only influence we have is our attitude that results in action.

The existence of problems is due to many factors that all converge to the concept of expectation.  It is our perceived need to influence others and outcomes that give us problems (doubts, uncertainties, difficulties).  We continue to strive to have life look the way we desire, having come to these conclusions restricted by our history and perceptions.

So, to limit the number of problems in your life, focus within yourself – use your energy to attend to your attitudes and actions.  Be true to yourself, always work toward being the best version of yourself, and let everyone else do the same.

Copyright 2011  Lynn Borenius Brown

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12 comments:

  1. Nice posted article. I agree most of our problem cause by our own actions but remember in every problem there is always solution.

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  2. Remember in any problem there is always a solutions. Just believe in your self and have trust to god above.

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  3. Yeah' I agree. If don't want to face a lot of problem live life positively.

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  4. Those problems are created by god for us to learn and to identify him.

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  5. This relentless pattern never stops. The only influence we have is our attitude that results in action.

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  6. "concept of expectation." Therein lies the root of our problems. We EXPECT. I suggest to all a book - Man's Search for Meaning but Vitor Frankl. Good stuff.

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